Showing posts with label Devotional. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Devotional. Show all posts

Saturday, September 19, 2015

"Love one another" wasn't a polite suggestion.

I attended a multi-faith devotional today. The theme was "Faith of our Fathers".

It was a beautiful devotional.

My friend, Kristina, gave a talk. She has an interesting story. I hope she doesn't mind if I paraphrase her here.

In Yugoslavia, where she was raised, they weren't allowed to discuss science or religion. It just wasn't done. Her father's mother was a devoted Catholic and would attend midnight mass. Attending mass was dangerous, as people were shot. It was common for people to disappear in the middle of the night.

Can you imagine?

Her father had a dream. He told them they were going back to America. They packed pretty much what they could carry and left under the cover of night.

This morning, before I knew what Kristina's talk was going to be about, I attended the flag ceremony at the front of the church. There were a few dozen people, milling around, waiting for the ceremony to commence.

How lucky we are. We are so lucky to be able to stand in front of a church without worrying about being gunned down just for being there. How lucky am I to be born an American. Then I thought, let's be honest. Luck has absolutely nothing to do with me being an American.

Forgive me while I digress.

Jewel has a song called "My Father's Daughter".

I am my father's daughter, he has his mother's eyes. I am the product of her sacrifice. I am the accumulation of the dreams of generations and their stories live in me like holy water.

Today, while I was listening to the devotional, it occurred to me...I am not lucky to be an American. Luck has nothing to do with me being here. I am here because of centuries of sacrifice...their sacrifice. Sacrifices that I am immeasurably thankful for. Sacrifices that I strive to be worthy of.

The underlying theme of the devotional was religious freedom. The freedom to worship how, where, and what we may. Which means we have to grant others the same opportunity.

Something else struck me while I was at the devotional. The hatred that burned John Rogers (Thomas Matthew) at the stake, is the same hatred that chased LDS families across the plains. It is also the same hatred that is persecuting Muslims and homosexuals.

The. hatred. has. got. to. stop. 

It's not Christlike. It's not productive. We need to find a way to compromise with each other and learn that compromising with others doesn't mean you must compromise your standards. It simply means everyone has the freedom to live their lives according to their own conscience.

I'm tired of all of the negativity. I'm tired of people being outraged. People are being offended over things that don't really pertain to them. Things need to change. We need to stop intentionally trying to offend people. Contriving outrage and finding things to get mad about serves nobody. Scratch that. Yes it does. It serves Satan. You can't have Christ in your heart if it's full of anger and hate.

Nobody is asking you to compromise your own personal standards. Accepting someone else for who they are doesn't make your heart any less. I would posit that it makes you a better person. Satan wants us to feel contempt. He wants us to have anger in our hearts.

At the devotional, a Baptist pastor told a story.

Satan was collaborating with his followers, trying to get people to stray. The first one said, "We can get them to believe there's no God," But that wouldn't work. The second one said, "We can get them to believe there's no Heaven or Hell." But that wouldn't work, either. The third one said, "We will tell them there's no hurry."

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Keeping Christ in Christmas.

Christmas has become too commercialized.  The spirit of Christmas is all but gone and that is just sad.  As a matter of fact, I cringe every time I see a particular store's Christmas commercials.

"Ring ding a ding, ring ding a ding, ring me up!  This is going to be a great Christmas."

We're in the middle of a recession.  Millions of people are out of work and / or are living below poverty level.  Layaway does not make a great Christmas.  Expensive gifts do not make a great Christmas.  We know this.  Family makes a great Christmas.  But those that made Christmas great for me as a child aren't here anymore. What did they do that made Christmas fantastic?

During the Christmas devotional, President Dieter Uchtdorf explained how he very nearly ruined Christmas.  When he was four, he wanted to see how pretty a candle would look behind their shimmery curtains.  The curtains caught fire and he just knew that he had ruined Christmas.

Of course, Christmas wasn't really ruined.

Christmas isn't about the gifts or the decorations.  Christmas is about celebrating Christ and everything Christ stands for.  In my ever so humble opinion, Christ should be celebrated everyday and especially celebrated on Christmas day.  Instead, Christmas has become a holiday for sales, crowd control, and credit card debt.  Pepper spraying fellow shoppers, stepping over people as they die in the aisle, and camping out instead of celebrating Thanksgiving with your family is NOT how Christ would want us to celebrate Christmas.

So why can't I stop buying gifts for Matthew?  (That's rhetorical, mmmkay?  Thanks.)

I recently went to Target to go Christmas shopping for a few more things to put under the tree.  I had to find the perfect wrapping paper.  There had to have been hundreds of rolls to choose from: Santa Claus, reindeer, Charlie Brown, Spongebob Squarepants, paisley prints, and Justin Bieber.  What does Justin Bieber have to do with Christmas?  Nothing!  So why is his face covering rolls of wrapping paper?  (Again, rhetorical.)

Christmas is my favorite holiday of the entire year.  Mostly because it feels like home.  I can still smell Grandpa's word burning stove, feel its heat on my skin.  The excitement of knowing that Santa would be coming soon.  What would he bring me?  The tradition of excitement has been passed on to Matthew.  But President Monson asked that we focus on Christ by loving and serving others instead of focusing on the commercial aspect.  (Sorry, Justin Bieber!)

“The spirit of Christmas is the spirit of love and of generosity and of goodness,” President Monson said. “It illuminates the picture window of the soul, and we look out upon the world’s busy life and become more interested in people than in things.”

How do we put Christ back into Christmas?  Matthew thinks we should recreate a life-size nativity in our living room.  Which is an excellent idea, though not very practical.  It's hard to teach children to put Christ back into Christmas when they are inundated with all of the latest greatest gizmos and gadgets.  The look on Matthew's face when he unwraps his presents is priceless!  The twinkle in his eye and the smile that hits his lips when he sees the new toy makes my heart melt.

How can we recreate that excitement without embracing commercialism?

http://lds.org/bible-videos/videos/shepherds-learn-of-the-birth-of-christ?lang=eng

Nobody is perfect and I'm not innocent when it comes to living beyond my means.  I need to find a cheaper, more meaningful way to spend Christmas and welcome your ideas.